As more South Africans rethink their relationship with alcohol, writer Lelethu Zondani believes the wine industry is missing a major opportunity. In this opinion piece, Zondani reflects on her journey as a sober wine drinker and asks why non-alcoholic wine lovers are still being treated as an afterthought.

The Wine Industry Isn’t Flirting With Sober Drinkers

I never expected becoming a sober wine drinker would make me feel like I’d discovered the wine industry’s best-kept secret.

When I started exploring the world of non-alcoholic wine, I thought it was going to be exciting. After all, this is an industry built on storytelling, experiences and making people feel something. I expected innovation. I expected inclusion. I expected to be surprised.

Instead, I found myself wondering why the wine industry isn’t even flirting with sober drinkers.

Where’s the excitement?

Think about it. Every time a new wine launches, there’s a celebration. There are tastings, events, influencer campaigns, beautiful gift boxes and endless social media content. The industry knows how to create excitement around a bottle of wine.

But where is that same energy for non-alcoholic wine?

Where are the launch events? The PR packages? The influencers proudly sharing their sober journey while celebrating a new alcohol-free release?

The answer is simple: they barely exist.

I find it strange because sober drinkers aren’t some tiny niche group hiding in the corner anymore.

Every sober person I have met has a story. Some chose sobriety because of recovery. Others did it for their health, their family, their career goals or simply because they wanted a better relationship with themselves.

These are powerful stories. Stories about discipline, growth, resilience and self-awareness.

Yet nobody is telling them.

The lonely shelf

Then there’s the shopping experience.

Walk into most liquor stores and you’ll find shelves upon shelves dedicated to traditional wine. Meanwhile, the non-alcoholic section feels like an afterthought, usually a couple of lonely shelves tucked away somewhere between mixers and disappointment.

What makes this even more frustrating is that South Africa has more than 50 non-alcoholic wine labels available.

The products are there. Consumers are there. The demand is growing, but distributors and retailers are still acting like sober drinkers should be grateful for the same three bottles they’ve been staring at for the past two years.

The experience stops at the door

Don’t get me started on wine tourism.

One of the things I love most about wine is the experience. The tasting rooms, the conversations, the food pairings and the stories behind the bottle.

Yet when a sober guest arrives at many wine estates, the experience often stops before it even begins.

Everyone else gets a carefully curated tasting.

The sober guest gets water.

Nothing says “we didn’t think about you” quite like being handed a glass of sparkling water while everyone else embarks on a sensory journey.

This isn’t a trend

The irony is that today’s generation is obsessed with self-improvement.

People are prioritising physical health, mental health, performance and longevity. They’re questioning their relationship with alcohol in ways previous generations never did.

This isn’t a trend.

It’s a cultural shift.

Instead of embracing it, much of the wine industry seems content to watch it happen from the sidelines.

The truth is, sober drinkers still love experiences. We still love beautiful bottles, great hospitality, good food and meaningful social connections.

We haven’t stopped wanting to belong.

We’ve simply stopped wanting alcohol.

Stop playing hard to get

That’s why I find this so disappointing. Not because I expected perfection, but because I know this industry is capable of so much more.

The opportunity is sitting right in front of it.

Until then, I’ll keep talking about it. I’ll keep asking awkward questions and I’ll keep advocating for sober wine drinkers because we deserve more than a token shelf in a liquor store and a glass of water at a wine tasting.

We’re here.

We’re growing.

And we’re ready to be part of the conversation.

The wine industry just needs to stop playing hard to get.

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